'You need to stay': Leeds dad’s film about daughter’s suicide reaches 175,000 views in its first week

A Leeds dad who says he “misses his daughter every day” has called for change to the system after losing her to suicide.

David has spoken out about the death of his daughter Molly in 2024, whose story he has shared in a powerful new film which has been viewed more than 175,000 times in its first week.

He said nothing could bring Molly back, but he wants her story to reach the people who can make a difference and help prevent other families suffering the same loss.

“I miss my Molly more than I could ever explain to anyone,” David, who wishes not to disclose his surname, said.

“Nothing will bring her back, but if her story is at the forefront of the minds of the people who can make a difference, kings and queens, MPs, CEOs, journalists, writers and commentators, then the job I have promised her I will do will have been fulfilled.”

Molly’s Dad, a 34-minute documentary by Leeds production company Chapter 81, was released on World Suicide Prevention Day (September 10) ahead of Leeds International Festival of Ideas’ event, How do we talk about suicide?, on October 7.

In the film, David talks about his daughter’s life, her final days and the letter she left him.

The film also touches on heartbreaking subjects including breaking the news to her grandparents and the question of shame.

Produced by C81 Studios and directed by Simon Fogal, the film was shot in a single interview in Leeds on August 12.

After reaching 175,000 views in a week, David said he was astounded by the response to the film.

“So many views and so many touching comments,” he said.

“I don’t really know what I expected, but this is beyond anything I might have had in mind, so a massive thank you to all.

“This is not about me. It never has been. My aim is for people to hear Molly’s story, which keeps her present, and hopefully it will help someone out there to stay. You need to stay.

“Something in our system needs to change. When the biggest killer of young people is suicide, not disease, alcohol, driving, work, unsupervised holidays, drugs, motorbikes or general stupidity, which are all present in the lives of young people, but suicide, then something needs to change.

“I will shout as long as someone is prepared to listen, and if they stop listening, I will shout louder.”

How do we talk about suicide? takes place on Wednesday, October 7, at 7.30pm in the Courtyard Theatre at Leeds Playhouse as part of Leeds International Festival of Ideas (LIFI).

Hosted by Amy Irons, the panel will feature Roman Kemp, Professor Rory O’Connor, Andy Airey MBE of 3 Dads Walking, Donelle Lawrence of The Brave Project and Ellie Palma-Cass.

Tickets are available from here or the Leeds Playhouse box office on 0113 213 7700.

Molly’s Dad is available to watch now on YouTube.

If you are affected by anything in this article, Samaritans are available day and night on 116 123, free from any phone.