From Lock and Key parties on Greek Street to astrology-powered mixers and secret singles dinners, the city is trading the digital swipe for real-life sparks.
While apps were once the convenient way to meet, many of us have found that a tiny profile picture and a few lines of text can’t capture the things that actually matter: a person’s energy, their laugh, or that unexplainable click that happens in the first ten seconds of a conversation.
Trading the screen for a seat at a table can feel daunting - pre-event jitters are a very real thing - but there is a collective comfort in knowing that everyone else in the room is in the same boat.
These events aren’t about finding perfection by swiping through a thousand faces; they’re about the bravery of showing up as yourself and seeing who shows up back.
While we’ve rounded up the best spots to find a connection, please note that these events are strictly ticketed and often sell out well in advance, especially during Valentine's week.
To secure your spot, we recommend booking directly through the respective event promoters (such as Ditch or Date, Fastlove, or the Thursday app) or via the venues' official websites. Most of these bars and restaurants cannot accept walk-ins for singles events on the night, so be sure to get your name on the list early to avoid disappointment.
So, whether you’re looking for a sophisticated six-course meal or a high-energy speed dating session, here are eight of the best events for singles in Leeds this week, with one for those feeling plucky to put themselves out there the week after Valentine’s Day too.
1. Ditch or Date in Leeds (February 11)
A classic high-energy speed dating night. You’ll have a series of four-minute dates with up to 20 people. This session is specifically designed for the 25–39 age bracket, ensuring you meet people in a similar life stage. 📞 Dirty Martini, 31 King St, Leeds LS1 2HL | Jonathan Gawthorpe
2. Valentine’s Singles Dinner (February 11)
Hosted by the Thursday app, this is a full restaurant takeover for 30–40-year-olds. Enjoy a Night in Paris themed six-course tasting menu with zero pressure - just 70+ singles sharing a meal in a sophisticated setting. 📞 Six by Nico, 9 East Parade, Leeds LS1 2AJ | James Hardisty
3. You Had Me At First Slice (February 11)
A more casual dinner alternative for the 30–40 demographic. Grab a seat at a shared table, order your favourite sourdough pizza, and connect over a relaxed, self-guided evening without the intensity of a host. 📞 Franco Manca, 1 Trinity St, Leeds LS1 6AP | Gary Longbottom
4. Super Secret Singles Dinner (February 11)
Copy: Aimed at a slightly younger crowd (ages 24–34), this 'secret' dinner party is all about real conversation. It’s a self-guided experience with no gimmicks. Just a small group of singles, good food, and plenty of room to breathe. 📞 Franco Manca, 1 Trinity St, Leeds LS1 6AP | Canva
5. Valentine’s Party with Love at First Sign (February 12)
An 'Any Age' singles mixer that utilises the Cosmic Fusion app to help you find matches based on astrology and personality. It’s a 3 and a half hour event for anyone 18+ who wants the stars to help them find a connection. 📞 The End, 82A Lower Briggate, Leeds LS1 6HH | Google Street View
6. Valentine’s Singles Special (February 12)
Aimed at the under-35s, this event turns social darts into a giant icebreaker. Expect a tournament-style setup at 7:30pm, flowing cocktails, and a room full of over 100 singles looking for a Valentine’s weekend date. 📞 Flight Club, Sovereign St, Leeds LS1 4BA | Tripadvisor